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[11 Nov 2005|11:08pm]

LOL ok so i know that recently i have been posting about how to give head and how to please him and how to dominate... well i think tonight i kinda did head i am not sure.... LOL i like kissed it and sucked on the tip, just the tip and rubbed it with my hand and all. But i couldn't really tell if it did anything. I have no idea ifi he enjoyed it or what. I mean at times he grond and made little noises, but i never got him off.
I feel so incrediable stupid!!! I CANT EVEN GET MY BOYFRIEND OFF!!!!

But the one thing i did do was my "famous handjob" which until tonigt i thought i did very well, because i have been able to get MANy of MANY guys off with my sweet AWSOME handjobs. But that didnt even work.


one more thing... I cant do the dominant role either i tryed so hard... i did everything i could but no i got no response. I guess maybe he was trying to make a point or something, since i do not make much noise... but i feel horrible... How do i do the dominant thing?

i mean i am not great at this. I really am not. I mean we are dating now, IFA (thats what i'll call him) we went out over the summer made love have sex whatever we call it, then broke up no back together.

HELP ME!!!!! i kinda want to cry becaus ei cant even get my boyfriend off.
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[06 Nov 2005|01:09pm]

So saturday night i went and saw... my ex-boyfriend and while i was there we had sex.. .as in i wwent there knowing that i was going to get laid. So like i said earlier i have been having problems expressing my enjoyment ( as in not making noise.. stuff like that) and well i fixed that on saturday night. His roommates were home and they were a little tipsy ya know!! And i walk out of the room and well they all look at me and said "nice moans" LOL haha ya it was fun... but all the time we were hanging out he was hinting at going back out ... or being my boyfriend...

But for the sex... Amazing...!!!! :O) But there is still one issue.... I dont know how to take control. I am not good at that. I am way shy to do it. Too Shy to tell you the truth. I want him to do all of it. Kind of.. i mean i want to seduce him in a i make the calls kind of way but i am not ... so how can i get my confidence up to do that sometime?
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[27 Oct 2005|08:53am]

Ya you heard me right my ex boyfriends needs. WE are still "doing it" occasionally, but he recently told me that he doesnt like haveing sex with me because i dont show him that i enjoy it.
BACKGROUND.. i am a quiet person to have sex with... i dont really make that much noise or anything. I have little moans every now and then but other then that i keep to myswlf.

So here is my question... what the hell do i do to make him think that i am enjoying it .. i mean i am enjoying it he is great ( the only gu i have have sex with so eh?) but how do i show him?
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vibrator [22 Sep 2005|04:44pm]

If you are 17 where do you get a vibrator?
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[25 Oct 2004|08:48pm]

[ mood | anxious ]

me and my girlfriend have decided to have sex, we are both first timers, and have been dating for nearly a year, but i was wondering--due to her reletive sensitivity, whether or not there are some better first time positions than others.

any ideas, advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.


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[06 Aug 2004|03:36am]

hah okay this is all so strange

i just gave my bf our first bj about two weeks ago and he fingered me too. Of course since he was new to it all he really knew to do was pulse his finger in and out of me, i would really like it if he found my clit or went down on me. Any one have any ideas on how to drop a subtel and hoepfully nonverbal hint?

also, what can i do to give him the most possible pleasure?
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HELP [08 Jul 2004|08:55pm]

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 11 months now. He wants me to try new things w/ him. I mean I give him oral sex but he said he wants me to try new and different things...Any suggestions? I have no idea what to do. Please help me. I want to please him but just giving him head hurts because it takes him forever to get off. I try using my hands but that never works either. Please please please help.

Another thing, He has always been able to go down on me. He used to like it a lot. Well then I started to ask him to finger me at the same time so now he won't go down on me at all. I am shaven and I make sure I am clean all the time. He said it was because he didn't feel good enough and I told him he was great. Is there anything I can do to make him want to do it again?

Thank you
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[22 Feb 2004|03:12pm]
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Is anal good for women. [25 Oct 2003|03:10pm]
[ mood | curious ]

I've been fooling around with this guy lately. I'm not super-experienced. I've had sex with one person (not him) who I recently broke up with. Anyway, he's into anal. The idea of anal sex had never occured to me. I was just wondering if its any good for women. I know for guys its good because the prostate gets stimulated. But what about women?

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[13 Sep 2002|08:37pm]

this should be pretty spiff so like i can maybe get some tips...ummm..yeah.out
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[02 Jun 2002|09:01pm]

[ mood | tired ]

Hey Im new to this community! And I just wanted to say Hey!! I think this is a great idea for a LJ!

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[01 Jun 2002|11:42am]
Welcome to, Sex For Dummies.

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